As dads, doing what’s best for our families is a top priority. And, sometimes, making the right decisions can be a bit difficult. Take a long-distance move, for example. Even if it’s what’s in your family’s best interest, there’s a good chance that someone won’t be happy about it—and that someone will usually be your child. Fortunately, we’ve got some strategies that can help you make that long-distance move a lot easier on everyone in the family—even you, dad.
Have a Family Discussion
Although moving is ultimately an adult decision, you should still include your children in moving-related discussions. By involving your children in the dialogue and encouraging them to ask questions and voice their concerns, you can help ease some of their perfectly understandable feelings of fear and powerlessness. Don’t dance around too much—come right out and address your children’s concerns, honestly and in language they can understand. Ask them what they think you can do to ease their anxieties, and do your best to fulfill those needs.